so it turns out I did have to use "sudo" to change the file.
For any1 that is curious... to access and change the apache2 file httpd.conf in order to "install" php on OS X.
you need to open terminal (WARNING: it is very easy to "F*$(" your system up if you don't know what your doing with the following)
type in:
sudo pico /etc/apache2/httpd.conf
terminal will return "Password:"
type in your admin password. (what you use to login) you need to have admin privileges on your computer to continue.
also when your typing your password... it wont show that your actually typing anything... but you really are
then hit "ENTER"
a new screen should appear... using the down arrow key... scroll to about line 115 i think... it's the end of the long list of "LoadModule" lines.
look for:
#LoadModule php5_module libexec/apache2/libphp5.so
and take out the pound sign in front of the line by using the arrow keys and delete key.
then go past the next line that looks like this:
#LoadModule fastcgi_module libexec/apache2/mod_fastcgi.so
and make a new line... type in the following:
AddType application/x-httpd-php .php
then hit "control+x"
this will ask you if you want to save the file "p.s... i would recommend creating a backup of this file in case things go wrong"
then hit the "y" character on your keyboard to confirm the changes... then hit "enter"... you will be taken back to the main terminal bash window... and your done. if you want it to be active you either reboot your machine or go into
system preferences - sharing - and uncheck and then check the box labeled "web sharing"
and you can check it by making an index.php file and placing it in the sites directory.
hope that helps