I am going to be a dad

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Well i am 16 and me and my girlfriend planned this. So its not a mistake. Thought i would share with you guys becuase i am very happy.

Also i know a lot of people will say that i wont be a good dad becuase i am 16 but i will be.

i am very happy :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:
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Congrats. A little too late to warn you about being too young. Regardless, if you're both happy and ready then my best to you!
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Thanks ATNO/TW yes we are both happy. And we also have made sure we have more than enough money to support the baby
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Good luck to you, sir! You'll never love anyone like your own children. They are a never-ending source of joy.
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I take it you have children then DM?
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Thanks ATNO/TW yes we are both happy. And we also have made sure we have more than enough money to support the baby


Good luck and congrats on your new journey! :wink:

Regarding that you have more than enough money hehe believe me, there'll never be enough... you'll see :lol:
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Well yeah you know what i mean. Enought to make sure we can support it
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I take it you have children then DM?


Yes sir! A 5 y.o. and a soon-to-be 8 y.o. :)

btw: You can win a lot of photo comps with your kids too! :P
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penguin wrote:
I take it you have children then DM?


Yes sir! A 5 y.o. and a soon-to-be 8 y.o. :)

btw: You can win a lot of photo comps with your kids too! :P


Haha thanks and ill keep that in mind.
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If you were my kid I would beat you senseless and your girlfriend.

In my humble opinion, 16 is way too young to make that kind of decision. You have absolutely no idea what you are getting yourself into. My mom had me at 15 and the road she traveled was not easy and life was difficult.

With that said, I wish you the best of luck and hopefully you don't become another statistic.
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Thanks Grinch. And know we wont be like that. We did actually Plan it and it did not happen by mistake.
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Thanks Grinch. And know we wont be like that. We did actually Plan it and it did not happen by mistake.


Out of curiosity, what do your parents think?
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Well i told them that we planned it. And they said that they think i am very young, But they will support me with what i choose to do. Also my girlfriends parents said the same thing. Both families are willing to support us which is a good thing.
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Very cool! You know, my parents were 16 and 17 when they first met, my mom on one side of the state, my dad on the other, and exactly one week after my mom graduated high school my parents got married. Everyone said it wouldn't last because they were so young and everything, but now 26 years later, they've got a 26 year old daughter and a 21 year old son (my sister and me) and are still happily married. So it is possible to be a teenager and a parent and make it work very well. Good luck!
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Thanks, And wow thats a great story there dude. I dont think we will get married just yet, But who knows
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If you were my kid I would beat you senseless and your girlfriend.

In my humble opinion, 16 is way too young to make that kind of decision. You have absolutely no idea what you are getting yourself into. My mom had me at 15 and the road she traveled was not easy and life was difficult.

With that said, I wish you the best of luck and hopefully you don't become another statistic.


Hope you luck... Have you thought and considered how you will not be able to be yourself while the child is very young and requires a lot of attention... mind you :lol: I don't have a baby yet, but I can imaging that it would be a very difficult journey and maybe a decision that you would later regret... you would not be able to travel... you would not be able to play with your friends hence you may loose them... just my thoughts on this but good luck with your decision :D Since your happy I guess I don't mind :)
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Play with my friends? i am 16 not a little kid? I have far more important things to do than "PLAY WITH FRIENDS"

But yes i well we have both thought about these things. But it is a rewarding thing also.
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"Play with friends" :lol: So you hate sports? Football? Soccer?... anyway... I was just throwing things for you to think about if you haven't :D
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Ok fair point i play football, and i go motorbike racing.
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Ok fair point i play football, and i go motorbike racing.


Say goodbye to those things.
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I will find away to still do motorbiking trust me.
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I will find away to still do motorbiking trust me.


Okay... one thing... don't neglect your baby.
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I don't have a kid or anything like that, but my dog is like a son to me ... Me and my sister also planned having the dog, my mother told me that it would be a big responsibility, but I took the chance and I would never regret it ... not quite the same, but it's a cool story none the less ... Wish you the best of luck!
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Alot of the people I grew up with had a baby at about your age, ALL of them started selling drugs to support the baby.

What you two did is *plum*, you were not considerate of anyone around you when you "planned this". You're 16, there's alot of things you can't do legally. You have no idea the burden you're about to put on everyone around you.

On the bright side, the same people I grew up with who had kids young, are pretty strong people these days.
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I don't have a kid or anything like that, but my dog is like a son to me ... Me and my sister also planned having the dog, my mother told me that it would be a big responsibility, but I took the chance and I would never regret it ... not quite the same, but it's a cool story none the less ... Wish you the best of luck!


you're comparing this mans child to your pet dog :?: :shock: :!:

**falls off his chair laughing** :lol: :wink:

I wish you all the best :D although I'm secretly saddened :(
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Well i am 16 and me and my girlfriend planned this. So its not a mistake. Thought i would share with you guys becuase i am very happy.

Also i know a lot of people will say that i wont be a good dad becuase i am 16 but i will be.

i am very happy :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:

Hey, the wife and I just found out that she's pregnant with our 2nd, so it looks like we'll have kids almost exactly the same age :o

Anyway, congrats and good luck!
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Hey, the wife and I just found out that she's pregnant with our 2nd...


:handsup: Yay jameson!
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:lol: Congratz to both of you :lol:
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:handsup: Yay jameson!

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:lol: Congratz to both of you :lol:


thanks guys!
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Congratulations!

I was almost 19 and my (ex) 17 when we had our first child, he is now almost 6, and I have a almost 3 year old too. They are the best thing in the world, and although everyone can tell you every horror story in the book, everyone is different, and we do not know you, so we have no right to tell you what you done is stupid. I was told I was stupid, and too young etc, and I took it with a grain of salt. Although I could have chosen a better father, I still love my boys with all my heart and they have everything they could ever want.

Don't listen to anyone, although I do recomend you take your Mothers advice when she gives it about the new baby! :)

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