I am not very religious really, however if there was a time i dread during the year it is definitely christmas. It is just too commercial for my liking and there is no real thought going into the meaning of the day.
I am not certain as to how some people celebrate other religions major days, i just have this feeling that for the most part it isn't all about the gift giving. I am fortunate in that my family for years and years would spend loads of money on gifts and when i was younger i loved it, latterly though being that i have grown older it has become less and less and this year i expect very little. The only thing i love about Christmas is spending some time with the family relaxing playing some games or something before and after the very nice christmas dinner.
I know though that this isn't always the case for many other people who will be opening loads and loads of gifts that they probably don't want or need. There is a huge expectation too from younger people to get something new, fancy and expensive. It's been like this for years, but with alot of kids getting introduce to technology at a younger age i can imagine it's even more expensive and demanding than it was when i was younger. I'm only 24 and remember when i was about 10-12 wanting a Stretch Armstrong toy thinking that would be cool but would usually get something else (and the dreaded, sicking, and horrible Toblerone!!) that i didn't really want just because my parents and family expected me to want more.
I am not looking forward to having children if this is what things will be like, although i imagine the smile on their face when they get something they like or the happiness they have on the day will be a great feeling as a parent.
I should add i am more of a Scrooge guy and much prefers new year to Christmas. I actually cannot wait for Hogmanay (as we call it in Scotland) aka New Years Eve because it's going to be great celebrating the new year and generally having a great time.
I am unlikely to post this closer to the time, so i just want to say that i hope you all have a good festive period and you all take a moment to think about what this time of the year really means whether it's religiously or what it means to yourself.