An amusing read to say the least!
I certanily have a keen interest in the English lanuage and in etymology and as this thread has been going on for years I'll try and cover the main areas of discussion in one post. Apologies up front for any lack of brevity.
I think we can all agree "Gray" is commonly used in America and becoming more and more accepted elsewhere over time.
Language does change and adapt in terms of: Spelling, usage of words, meanings, introduction of new words, sentence structure and so on, and although we may not like some of these changes or the continued move to what I consider lazy spelling (leaving off letters for no other purpose than to make words easier to remember and spell), there is not much we can do about it.
Memam: If you want to start a movement to maintain formal spelling everywhere English is used, I'd be a proponent!
I do find it interesting that while adopting "gray" many people still tend to spell it "greyhound" (read a bus!).
Words become acceptable (and correct) when they are used commonly, published and referenced. The Oxford dictionary set the standard for how words enter the English language (many moons ago) and sadly "gray" has become acceptable and is referenced as an alternative spelling within my Oxford dictionary (published date 1994) and distributed in Australia.
I might also point out that English has adapted over the years incorporating words from numerous languages including but certainly not limited too: Latin, German and French. In fact when the word "blue" originally entered common English usage (since we're talking about colours) it was "bleu" which is the *correct* French spelling of the word and was in fact a spelling mistake by Chaucer that through popularity caught on.
Cold Canuck: Refer to the Canadian Government Style Manual! In fact the common spelling of the word in Canada is in fact "grey" and not "gray". This is a common misconception because so many people have been influenced by various sources: American television, printing and perhaps far more heavily by software and the internet (as pointed out by other posters). Just as here in Australia, in Canada many people also end up using the "American" style of spelling, often without even realizing. In basic terms this means that they were actually misspelling the word, though this confusion is certainly understandable with the prevalence of the Americanized version. I would hazard a guess that this very fact and the consequential usage of (what was originally) an incorrect spelling within formal publishing is one of the reason that the word moved into formal acceptance. Indeed you may well ask many of your friends and family and find them divided, but if not then its certainly true that language tends to change in some areas more quickly than others.
To be clear, gray was once incorrect just as blue was; over time it became more socially accepted as an alternate spelling (not just in America), began to be used in published writings and references and has now become formally accepted and has and will continue to make its way into all English dictionaries (over time) as an alternate spelling. Your dictionary or online reference may not pay "gray" its dues, but give it a few years and I assure you this will change. I fervently hope "gray" will never completely replace the original (and in my mind more accurate) version "grey"
Synopsis: For me; a vote for grey!
This post was intended to further the discussion and debate "waged" here thus far and was conducted in good humour. No offense or disrespect was intended or implied.
