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Post September 10th, 2009, 1:58 am

Hi guys
just wanted to know your point of view.....
"once a thief is, always thief"
Is it true or acception is also there..?
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Post September 10th, 2009, 1:58 am

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Post September 10th, 2009, 3:02 am

Robin Hood was a respected thief and for a good cause.
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Post September 10th, 2009, 3:14 am

... its related to.. relation and all... like cheating and coming back...
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Post September 10th, 2009, 6:40 am

Isn't being "once a thief" itself the exception? Being "once a thief" is hardly a description of cleptomania.

It's the people who are "thrice" four and five times a thief you have to watch.
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Post September 10th, 2009, 8:59 am

i'd say false.

i got caught shoplifting when i was a kid. 20 somthing years ago.

I haven't stolen since. :P
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Post September 10th, 2009, 9:54 pm

i mean to say.. if ur friend cheat/thiefs you once .... you should forgive her/him or not...?
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Post September 11th, 2009, 4:52 am

I've got a similar story to jflynn. People can change. I would base my answer to your question on the age and maturity of the person. In the end, though, none of us can really tell you the best thing. You know this person - you have to make the decision that's best for you.
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Post September 11th, 2009, 6:53 am

montyt wrote:
i mean to say.. if ur friend cheat/thiefs you once .... you should forgive her/him or not...?



That depends...did he steal your identity and run up thousands and thousands of dollars of debt in your name, or did he take $20 out of your wallet without you asking?
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Post September 11th, 2009, 7:42 am

A "friend" wouldn't steal from you.
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Post September 11th, 2009, 7:59 am

For me if one of my friends cheating me, maybe i will forgive him/her, but it is very difficult for me to believe him/her the next time because he/she has hurt me.
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Post September 11th, 2009, 3:44 pm

montyt wrote:
Hi guys
just wanted to know your point of view.....
"once a thief is, always thief"
Is it true or acception is also there..?

That is interesting... if they stole something I don't think that I would see them as a thieve for the rest of my life... unless they continue to keep on stealing...

But if they steal someone, then I would see them as a thieve for the rest of my life even that was their first time :|
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Post September 14th, 2009, 1:06 am

thank you all for ur post...
but i guess now its like this....
"you can forgive, but can not forget"
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Post September 15th, 2009, 11:35 am

It depends, what was a punishment.If a punishment was nasty and hard for thief, so it he/she will be less like to this the same one more time. Exceptions are psycho etc.
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Post September 22nd, 2009, 2:46 am

nah there is no punishments....like i said... u can forgive but can't forget...!
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Post September 27th, 2009, 2:36 am

it depends on what the 'crime' was, what their reasons were, and how sorry they seem. I think forgiving but not forgetting is a good principle - I have forgiven people like that, and moved on, but there are certain things I will never trust them with again. So I guess you forgive, and try to rebuild the relationship, but remember that you need to keep yourself safe from this person. And don't make them your best friend or anything.
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