...what do u recommend i use to format the hard drive properly and how to?...
Well to make it easier on you, you can do it via the XP CD that you have.
1-simply insert your XP disc into your CD reader
2-Just before XP boots, press the spacebar on the keyboard to avoid going into Windows
3-when your are in the installation mode, a moment or another, it will ask you if you want to install windows, do not choose repair or something else, select “fresh install”
4-When asked choose format with “NTFS” system, please do not choose “Quick format” or FAT32.
Just keep in mind, NO Quick format and choose NTFS file system.
You should have a nice Windows installation and all of your hard disk will be at is prime.
But I understand your concerns about the time it takes,
so what I recommend you in the future is to buy a nice and dependable partition maker like “Acronis partition expert” and make a few partitions on the same drive, afterwards each time you want to format you will only format a small portion, thus making it less painful to wait for a full disk format, especially if you have a slow processor.
Example
I have a Maxtor 80g divided into 3 partitions
Partition 1, C:\ about 10.7gig for Windows
Partition 2, D:\ about 33.7gig for my working files
Partition 3, E:\ about 33.8gig for my archives, things that you don’t need often.
So you can see that when its time to format I have only the 10.7gig to reformat and not a full drive.
And as much there’s people on earth as much possibilities you will see, it’s up to you to create your preferences in how you make the partitions. Good luck!
