Hey, Zoomer. Thanks for the reply and welcome to Ozzu.

First off, with GWT, I don't think I would take the time to do the conversion. After working with it a few weeks, I can see the benefits of ground-up use, but I think you would pretty much have to rewrite the entire application if you wanted to integrate.
As for the other question, I haven't worked with ExtJS much, but I have developed a few apps each with Dojo and JQuery. I personally recommend the latter. Dojo seems extensive on the front-end, but with JQuery, you get a light-weight core lib with numerous extensions avaiable, so the gap between the coverage of the two narrows substantially. In fact, I prefer to add the extensions I need to JQuery and avoid the extra bloat that Dojo brings.
Like yourself, I found the amount of online coverage for GWT to be lacking. That being said, JQuery still carries a rather large community, offering a lot of documentation and support. It's also easy to extend when you can't find quite what you were looking for.
Oh, and if you did choose to go with JQuery, you'd find a decent support-base here at Ozzu. You may not need assistance with your site, but if you happened to get stuck on something, there's a few heads around here who could help out.

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