SITE REVIEW: Can you tell me what you think of my Group area

I am working hard to create content on my site. I have a group area and forum area. It is like pulling teeth to get anyone to post in those areas.
I have noticed that not many people participate and on other dating sites those areas are very popular.

Would appreciate any suggestions???

Yes,I saw only someone to post in these areas.I guess the reason should be: comments may offend some website master,or, maybe we're not sure if our view is right or not.

allsinglesmeet: the website looks simple and nice.I can understand everything clear at the first sight.But,I found some of the members' photo is blank,right?Why not put some real and nice photos at frontpage? I think it'll be more attractive.;O)